Those personal development books have potent insights for your growth and will be an eye-opener for you so you can unleash your career potential. Those books have so much wisdom that reading at least 15 times is worth it. That’s because, on average, the reader will absorb 6% to 10% of the information each time read.
Therefore, I highly recommend you read all of the following books many times until you become one with the book.
Use this Time Optimization Technique to Read Books
Finding time to read books nowadays is quite challenging. That’s why I will share with you a technique that has been helping me a LOT to read books.
The technique is simple: I multi-task by listening to audiobooks whenever I do an activity that doesn’t require a lot of brain power. Examples of activities are going to the gym, cleaning the house, washing the dishes, commuting to work, jogging, and walking.
You can use the same technique to help you read the books below.
1 – How to Win Friends and Influence People
This book really helped me to communicate with other people more effectively. The most important lesson from the book is that instead of trying to talk about yourself and show how great you are, listen to the other person. But be really interested in what they are saying. Also, remember that when you talk you don’t learn anything new, when you listen, you are learning something new.
Wait for people to finish their sentences, and be genuinely curious about what the other person does. Don’t criticize people, don’t think you are always right, and avoid arguments as you avoid snakes. Of course, sometimes arguing will be necessary, but you must choose your battles wisely. But in general, if you really want to prove your point, remember that you will likely lose a meaningful connection.
2 – Think and Grow Rich
This book discusses the rules of money and wealth. It also discusses the law of attraction, which states that you get what you focus on, and the idea of organized effort to bring value to a business and make money.
It has several suitable lessons, such as the saying that there is no such thing as nothing for something. It also explains the importance of investing in yourself because it pays dividends in the long term.
3 – Golden Lessons
Obviously, I will include my book here as well :).
The Golden Lessons book contains 100 practical lessons that I applied to achieve my career dreams abroad. It’s a very direct book; the lessons are succinct, drawn from the more than 100 books I read, all my experience, and my mentors’ wisdom.
It’s a practical book for you to absorb the lessons you need to change your career and life.
4 – Psycho-Cybernetics
This book discusses how a person’s personality can change as their looks change. If a person is more confident with his or her appearance, he or she will be able to achieve more.
This is an actual 29 years of research from Dr. Maxwell Maltz, a renowned pioneer in plastic surgery. As he performed plastic surgery on his patients, they had impressive achievements. Of course, it’s not necessary to also do plastic surgery to get the benefits of this book since understanding the fundamentals of the book will already help you a great deal.
5 – Rich Dad Poor Dad
This book is an eye-opener about finance. It explains how to make your money work for you instead of you working for money. It talks a lot about buying assets, such as real estate, gold, silver, and stocks, to protect you from inflation and earn a passive income.
The book’s story also tells the difference in behavior between rich and poor dads. The poor dad is highly educated and focused on his career but has no interest in learning more about finance. The rich dad is the opposite. He’s not as educated as the poor dad but has vast knowledge about finance, which makes him rich.
6 – Four Agreements
This concise book contains four powerful agreements you can apply in life. It tells about the concept of using your words as white or black magic. Hitler, as an example, used black magic with his words and convinced a nation that killing people would be a solution. Another example of black magic is when people demotivate you with destructive words. Or put a limiting belief in your mind that impedes you from achieving your goals.
Another important agreement is “do your best.” No knowledge in the world will make a difference in your life if you don’t take action. Therefore, the concept of the “do your best” agreement is that you do your best even when tying up your bed. If you adopt the mindset that you will do your best in everything in your life, you will grow much faster. If you let your ego hold you back because you are terrified of failure, then growth will be slow. Taking action and doing your best is crucial for your life and growth!
7 – Be Your Future Self Now
This book has a powerful concept of you being your future self right now. It shows an example of a famous YouTuber, Mr. Beast, who didn’t have many subscribers on YouTube, and then he created a video describing how he would be in 5 years. He said he would have 1 million subscribers. In the past five years, he has had more than 1 million subscribers. Everything he said would happen happened beyond his expectations.
This powerful book is worth reading many times so the whole concept is absorbed. The book also emphasizes the importance of knowing what you want. When you know what you want, write it down, record a video, or do anything to make it more real, the odds are that, like Mr. Beast, you will achieve your goals beyond your expectations.
8 – Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations
This is the book of pure wisdom from the great emperor Marcus Aurelius. In the book, he talks a lot about our mortality and reminds us that we will die very often one day. Also, he warns that we must be careful not to let our desires control us because this is a form of slavery.
Marcus Aurelius was very wise, and even though the book is very old, its wisdom still applies today. This is a timeless wisdom book that everyone should read.
9 – The 1% Rule
This book talks about the concept of consistency and how it pays dividends. For example, if you decide to be 1% better in any vital life skill, at the end of the year, you will be 365% better. Other than that, we must remember that the growth starts to be exponential at a certain point.
Therefore, if you practice a skill every day and face your fears consistently, you can rest assured that your long-term benefits will be compounded, and you will be a much better version of yourself.
10 – Four Thousand Weeks
This is a book that reminds us that we are mortal. We have something around four thousand weeks to live, and most of us think we will live forever. Life is short, and we have to remind ourselves that one day, we will die constantly, and that’s a very good reason to face our fears, follow our dreams, and face ourselves.
This book also talks about how attached we are to our egos and how beneficial it is to let go of our egos.
11 – Be Obsessed or Be Average
Grant Cardone is a millionaire real estate investor, and in this book, he talks about many of the principles he used to get there. Grant was a drug addict, and he managed to change his circumstances by changing his addiction from drugs to business.
One of the principles I really like from this book is to stay dangerous. This means you should show up and connect with people as much as possible to grow and expand your horizons. Another key concept from the book is that successful people don’t wait until they are fully prepared, instead, they learn what must be done on the way and they get it done!
12 – Peak Performance: Elevate Your Game, Avoid Burnout, and Thrive with the New Science of Success
This book discusses operating at a high level and being good at what you do. It also discusses deliberate practice, which is a deliberate way to practice and master a skill by repeating it many times.
It also talks about the importance of consistency. Since repetition is the mother of mastery, repeating a skill practice often enough will enable you to really master whatever skill you wish to acquire.
13 – Man’s Search of Meaning
Man’s Search for Meaning” is a memoir and philosophical treatise written by Viktor E. Frankl, a psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor. The book is divided into two parts: the first describes Frankl’s experiences in the concentration camps, and the second explains his ideas on logotherapy, a form of psychotherapy that emphasizes finding meaning and purpose in life.
Frankl challenges us to find meaning and purpose in our lives and embrace the challenges and struggles that come our way. His message is one of hope and resilience, and his book is a testament to the power of the human spirit to overcome even the most daunting obstacles.
14 – The Infinite Game: How Great Businesses Achieve Long-lasting Success
This book has the concept of playing the long-term game, avoiding harmful shortcuts, and constantly striving to improve yourself. It also talks about the importance of becoming better than you, not becoming better than others. Doing so will allow you to go on in your journey more smoothly and never stop growing.
15 – Principles: Life and Work
Ray Dalio is a very successful investor. In his book, he says that it’s essential to define your values in life and business. He says that values are the foundation, and big things start from your values. He also talks about the culture he adopted for his company, where people would have transparent feedback, and people who couldn’t take it wouldn’t fit for the company.
It’s not an easy reading, but it has wisdom. It’s a fantastic book.
16 – The Alchemist: A Fable About Following Your Dream
Paulo Coelho, an excellent Brazillian writer, wrote the book The Alchemist. This book tells the story of a shepherd boy from Spain who wants to find a treasure in Egypt. The story is very well written and keeps the reader looking forward to the next part so hopefully, the treasure is found.
17 – Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff, and It’s All Small Stuff
It’s a powerful personal development book about handling stress without worrying about small things. Very often, we get stressed in the traffic, at work, or in any other situation that really doesn’t matter in the long term. The book aims to expose how those small things shouldn’t stress us out.
Another example is to be late for a meeting or whatever other commitment. Most times, being late once won’t have any long-term impact. Also, the book describes an example where the author drives the car steadily, not rushing, and another car is trying to overtake him and rushing. Ultimately, he arrives at the destination at the same time as the other driver. The book shows with many examples that we shouldn’t really stress out over small things.
We also must remind ourselves that we are not responsible for other people’s problems, not that we should never help, but we must remember that we don’t need to.
18 – The Power of the Subconscious Mind
The conscious mind is like the captain of the subconscious mind. That’s because the conscious mind has only 20% of our brain power, while the subconscious mind has an incredible 80% capacity.
This book teaches us how to use the power of the subconscious mind. Repeatedly saying little negative things about ourselves will program our subconscious mind to believe in whatever limiting belief we have.
Therefore, instead of programming our subconscious mind for failure, it’s much better to say good things for ourselves and never say that achieving any goal you want in life is impossible. Self-affirmations are an excellent tool to help you program your subconscious mind to accomplish outstanding achievements.
19 – Atomic Habits: An Easy and Proven Way to Build Good Habits and Break Bad Ones
This personal development book provides an actionable framework for building good habits and breaking bad ones. The book highlights the importance of focusing on minor, incremental behavioral improvements rather than dramatic changes. Clear argues that we can achieve remarkable results over time by making tiny, consistent changes to our habits.
It also explains the importance of hanging out with people who have the habits you want to have. For example, if you hang out with lazy people, chances are very high that you will also become lazy. Therefore, make friends with people who have what you want, preferably.
Cleaning up your environment and making it easy to be consistent with your goal is another key to really building up your habit.
20 – Mindset – Updated Edition: Changing the Way You Think to Fulfil Your Potential
Carol Dweck explores the concept of mindset and how it affects our ability to fulfill our potential. She argues that people generally fall into two mindsets: a fixed mindset, where people believe their abilities and intelligence are fixed and cannot be changed, and a growth mindset, where people believe they can develop their abilities through effort and hard work.
The book provides numerous examples of individuals and organizations who have benefited from a growth mindset and outlines strategies for cultivating this mindset in ourselves and those around us. Dweck emphasizes the importance of effort, persistence, willingness to learn and grow, and the value of embracing failure as a learning opportunity.
Conclusion
The more books we read, the more prepared we are for challenges. We also have to remember to take action with our knowledge. Otherwise, reading a lot is a waste of time. Execution is key! I prepared other book lists as well so you can read them:
Unlocking Your Potential: The Top Career and Life Skills You Need to Succeed
Pl keep sharing
Tried most websites, can’t download any books , any suggestions please!
Hello Edith, you should be able to click on the books from this article and purchase them on Amazon.
Thanks for sharing these books please, I look forward to reading them . Do we have them in audio too?
Do we have them in audio too
I use pdf drive to get some of em
Pdf drive
For sure, thanks, Arun! 🙂
I was really depressed ,because i failed my entrance exam twice,(for which i was preparing for 2 yrs ) … got health issues and needed a break ,i found your article … those books you listed here are helpful and really helped me a lot in my bad days , thanks a lot
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Who is your editor? Title 13 — your lead-in is “Men’s Search of Meaning” but the real book title is really “Man’s Search for Meaning.”
Hello Barry, thanks for the feedback. It’s fixed now!
Really wish I had read them before!
Grateful for all these books , look forward to sharing with my son , who’s going to college, thank you
Hello Irina, I am happy to know that! That will be gold for your son to expand his mind! You can read it too! 🙂
Thanks for sharing. Going to read these books.
Hi Pooja, I am glad to know you will read them! Those are books that are totally worth it to read more than once so you can absorb them completely.
Excellent compilation of Books Mr Rafael I have noted down will complete reading all books shortly
Hello Rathore, I am glad you liked the list of books! There is a vast amount of wisdom in all of those books!
You forgot 5am club
Mr. Rafael,
Fantastic list. However, would like to make one suggestion and a couple of additions.
1. Rather than Dale Carnegie’s book, think 7 Habits has more about Personal development (victory comes from within).
Other notable additions:
1. Getting to Yes
2. Crucial conversations
3. Emotional Intelligence
Hello A.J. thanks for your feedback, it’s highly appreciated! The idea of the article is to not put too many books to not overwhelm the reader, but the books you suggested are excellent thank you so much! They are going to my personal book list. 🙂
The readers of this article can also refer to the books you shared so thanks for sharing!
Bravo I’ve read 5 of the books listed. Not a good score but I’ve read twenty other books. The current book on my table, The fall of a public man by Richard Sennett could not make the list
Hello Adedapo! Now you have 15 books more for your must-read books. 🙂
Thanks for sharing “The Fall of a public man by Richard Sennett”, I will definitely check this out.
Where will i order those books
Hello Neil, you can order the books on Amazon. The links should be ready for you in the article. I particularly like to use audiobooks. You should be able to get them from Amazon or Audible.
I would add:
Never Split the Difference
Crucial Conversations
Think Lead Disrupt
Those are excellent books, thanks for sharing, Brent! The idea of the article is to not put too many books so I had to leave some books out of the list. But still, the readers can refer to the books you suggested too!
Like it we have to read it .
It will make a big difference on your mindset to read those books. Definitely worth it, Kripal!
Happy to join n looking forward to great development
The Sauce
You need a better explanation of Psycho-Cybernetics. He started out as a plastic surgeon, but the book isn’t really about how plastic surgery changed how people thought of themselves. It’s about the fact that how people think of themselves affects their lives, and how to change the way you think about yourself.
Hi Mike, thanks for adding that to the Psycho-Cybernetics book. Yes, it’s about limiting beliefs we have and how we can overcome these limiting beliefs by changing the way we think about ourselves. The plastic surgeries changed the way people think about themselves though but you are right, that’s not the whole point of the book. I will add this to the article 🙂
Thanks for providing target line
Incidentally, I have gone hrough three of the list
Hi Rai, that’s awesome. This means you have 17 books to read of the list 🙂
Great list of books other than one.
https://youtu.be/iEDzb9ZplX0
You need to drop or address the fact that Napoleon Hill is a known con artist now.
Thanks for adding that, Dennis. However, Napoleon Hill’s book is so good that even if he was a farse still is a powerful book in my opinion. Bob Proctor (https://www.youtube.com/@BobProctorTV) uses his book to create his content and I think that if Napoleon Hill was really a farse, Bob Proctor wouldn’t be using his book as a reference.
Great article. I had read some books here like Rich Dad, Poor Da, the alchemist, Atomic Habits and few others.
Your list of books is great and The 1% Rule’s book sparks my attention .
Thanks Writer and editor for sharing value.
Hello Karim, thanks for your feedback. The 1% is a very powerful one. I really go deep into the concept of consistency and how we can be better at 1% with the decisions we do daily. It also explains that the most important is not what we do once a year, instead, the multiple choices we do every day.
I think can’t hurt me must be added in the list ☺️
That’s a good book too, even though I think David Goggins goes to the extreme and he admits that in the book it has some good lessons there.
Rafael del Nero,
I’m not so found of reading books, but the suggestions which are there on list looks very interesting, I will definitely read all this.
Please do keep suggesting.
Hi Harsh, I am really happy that motivated you to read books and you will see the power of reading them. You expand your mind so much and helps you to eliminate so many limiting beliefs… Books have a great amount of wisdom and it’s extremely powerful for our growth.
Truly, these books are life Changer.
Thanks for sharing
Hi Vinay, they are indeed very powerful books and totally worth it reading! Thanks for your feedback!
I could like to start reading motivational books for personal growth.
Hi Angella, give it a try! You will see how much wisdom there are on those books and you will rapidly figure out how to apply this windom in practice in your life.
They all good books
Hi Watson, thanks for the feedback. And yes, those are powerful books.
This is awesome ! I love reading . For some years I have been thinking to be writer but I was so hesitating because of lack of confidence ever since I started practicing it until I wrote my first artcicle . Power of consistency
Hello David, thank you so much for your feedback! Yes, consistency will enable you to achieve anything. The 1% rule book goes very deep into the concept of consistency. Take a look at this one.
Hi thanks for sharing, did you read all of them ?
Hi Sayzou, I did! I used the time optimization technique of listening to those books while doing some activities. I will share this idea in this article soon.
Thank you Sir, please do we realy need it !
I was really depressed ,because i failed my entrance exam twice,(for which i was preparing for 2 yrs ) … got health issues and needed a break ,i found your article … those books you listed here are helpful and really helped me a lot in my bad days , thanks a lot
Hi Shiwani, thanks for sharing your challenges. Those are powerful books to make your mindset resilient to adversities in life. Like you I also went through many adversities in life and if I hadn’t worked on myself and had acquired the wisdom from books I don’t really know if I would be able to face those adversities. So, adopt as a habit to read those books, there is so much wisdom and so many insights that you will notice that “failure” is a necessary part to achieve success.